Modifying Child Custody and Visitation in North Carolina

North Carolina courts are principally concerned with the best interest of the children during hearings on custody and visitation rights. The idea is to ensure the child’s life does not get too unsettled during the breakup of his or her parents. Judges examine the child’s current living situation, his or her relationship with each parent, and each parent’s capabilities when caring for the child.

Additionally, judges often consider the following in terms of the child’s security:

• The overall safety of the child;
• Whether either parent has been accused of committing an act of domestic violence; and
• The safety of a parent who has been the victim of an act of domestic violence.

The court will also take into consideration the requests of the parents. Either parent may file for custody, or both parents may elect to share custody. When custody is decided, the court will outline the terms of the decision in writing and will also give visitation instructions, if applicable.

Once a custody order is in place, the process to modify it will differ depending on how the court issued the original order:

• The parents can agree to a custody modification and submit it to the judge as a consent order.
• If the original custody arrangement was part of a separation agreement, either parent can request modification, and the other parent can agree or disagree. If the parent disagrees, the original requester can approach the court for modification.
• If the original custody agreement was by court order, then the parent seeking modification must file a motion with the court.